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SEXCAPADES

Posted in Communications, Men&Women, psychology, Relationships with tags , on October 22, 2009 by ichas8440

G's BossolinoI really had no intension of re-visiting this topic, but…

“Every time I think I’ve gotten out, someone pulls me right back in it!”

Another high-powered Producer from the Entertainment Industry had to pull a disappearing act because of what has been reported to be.  Exactly, another sex scandal!  And since many of you have shot emails my way, asking for clarification on why America is so caught up in celebrity-ism.  Primarily their sex lives, I have to…    “Hav ‘ta answer da call.” Besides, this is what I do.

Before we dip waist deep into this, allow me to break something down by “kicking knowledge”.  In fact, let’s begin with the word “knowledge”.  Knowledge according to “G” means to (know) so you won’t fall off that (ledge).  “Ya feel me, yeah you’ve got it.” Now, movin’ into “scandal”.  This is a situation of premier status that creates a public outcry and in America the screams are based on the masses appetite in following the celebrity.  And ya know, those who follow another’s life so closely usually haven’t got a life.  Or, those who glow with the awareness of the famous are attempting to live their life via the celebs that they privately wish they could be like.  Lastly let us touch on that word which causes everyone, especially Americans to turn away with shame, “sex”!

No great mystery here, sex defines genitals plain and simple.  But for most functional FOLK this root word denotes two living beings doin’ the nasty.  Hey, it’s done each and everyday, mostly engage in the nasty for fun and…  Undeniable pleasure.  Occasionally that pro-creation thing comes into play, but this is a secondary consideration or collateral results at best.

Once I was asked why don’t I become a therapist on sex.  The word therapist I won’t even break down, but I didn’t qualify the question then nor will I today.  Still, it’s like this.

Every-Some-One-Body that gets with another body doesn’t always have the focus of the end-game being the sexual conquest, or…  Seeking out the relationship merely for sex.  Okay, 99% of the time the sex may be the case, but for the more multi-leveled ones.  Those who are conscious of themselves & their kind, this engagement goes way beyond the physical.

Alright, I agree, I know that when you first set eyes on another the attraction normally has been based on what you’ve observed in a physical sense.  That visual thing if you will.  Yet, once the intro is made and the mouth opens allowing words to emerge, BAM!  You begin to add to the attraction’s depth chart.  This is defined as the qualifying period of the relationship.  Providing this level of communications proves to be “magnifico” the sex will occur, just give it time.  But this sex scandal thing is way over exposed.

Now, let’s blend all this together.  Take what has previously been explained with regard to the meaning of certain key words, toss ’em in, mixing them with the mentality of those using these words and…  You will find that the scandal is in the mind’s of the perceiver.  Drizzle in the media blitz that can’t stop feeding the masses of those of the initial observance.  Which incidentally, moves me to better understand why…?  Why so many FOLK are demanding that the cycle ceases.  Could it be that these are the collective cries of the guilty!

Psssss: Yes, sex will always have that attraction in the public’s mind.  And no, I’m not going back into the re-visiting the abuse of power thing.