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“Player, Hater…Hatin'”

Posted in Communications, Men&Women, psychology, Relationships with tags , on June 7, 2015 by ichas8440

Ichas8440.Graphics.Player,Hater-Hatin.2015If y’all can’t stand us then why is there such a rush to capture our essence!

Player; One who is despised by Haters.

Hater; Anyone who functions from a position of dimensioned capacity.  Now that you know, let’s turn what’s traditional and bring history up to speed by defining the essence of, The Player.

I hear it all the time “Don’t hate The Player hate The Game”.  Now let me put y’all up on Game.  The term originated from the concealed consciousness of a true to life Player as a means to avoid going medieval on those seeking inclusion into a reality many fear absorption by.  To elaborate would be “Much ‘ta do ‘bout nothin’” because ain’t nothin’ gonna change, but…  Next time you hear or wanna state this phrase, stop.  Do not continue just stop and consider the phrase and recognize what others already know; something is missing when it’s said by One not really in the Loop.

Some more un-written truth; no Player will even allow themselves to be manipulated by the masses who…  Really don’t have a voice but react based on their collective consciousness which results from the “followers mentality”.  Yes “Game recognizes Game” so to even recite the phrase applying it out of content confirms two things.  First you’re out of your depth of understanding followed by the fact that while tryin’ to act as if you feel the vibe when the phrase is said.  Now, while you step off trying to connect the dots the true Player leaves and comfortably carries on.

Real Talk; U can hate The Player when they don’t represent.  That is; personify The Game.  The whole world is a stage and this is how those perpretratin’ fool U.

Authentication of The Player; a fools game!  Money; The Neutralize required for prolonged togetherness during any relationship between He and She is what keeps so many caught-up in the Drama of trying to say “Who’s Who”.  The Player being fully conscious of this isn’t trying to be authenticated because they know something else.  They will be the the taboo one and nothin’ will change.  At least, not until…

What personifies “The Player”?  Don’t tax your mind cause really you don’t know.  More bad news; no need to be shamed because way too many perpetrators running around referring to themselves as being “GameTight”, and.  What’s really goin’ on is another Magicians trick.  Think channeling.  Like the distinguishing Puppeteer who has achieved the mastery giving them the distinct ability to project while redefining images of something else of which.  You don’t even see.

Let’s, incident drop, Wilshire Blvd where it intersects Westwood Blvd at the Northeast corner heading south, cali.  A limo is idling at the inter-section.  Driver lowers tinted window slowly taking full advantage to setting the tone.  A voice reverberates against the buildings as he hollers out inquiring about the female accompanying by another.  Object of interest, her.  Not phased their stride maintained and they pass.  Hours later she ask if the guy whose face is on the News is the same guy who just tried to…

The story featured was about an I.A.D who was appearing at the Federal Building.  The acronym is for International Arms Dealer. (See Adnan Khashoggi)  Something you need to commit to memory, clothing, attitude, projected image doesn’t make anybody a Player but… Assumptions by the masses based on Media representations are a bitch and imagine.  Who would think such a person would do such a thing or partake in this sorta’ demonstration.

A Former Federal Reserve Chairman once personally spoke on why attractive women step his way and.  He had no illusions.  He isn’t referred to as a Player nor does he carry himself as one but…  Everyone of the attractive women he appears with looks the other way in regards to his “non-hot guy” physical features and he knew why.  Point is; everybody tries to Play at some point within their lives, they just don’t want the connotations of a Player to touch ’em.  (See Allan Greenspan)

Player present and immediately FOLK conjure up images of a master manipulation goin’ down.  Truth is a totally different vision.  With money on everybody’s mind, FOLK tired of failing in their never ending quest to have a financial substance giving them a place at the table, Western Society had become; restless.  Introducing Crack Cocaine; giving any-some-one tryin’ to get a nut a conduit, allowing for a means to generating money.  Oh yes, and the disgraceful results were a bunch of dummies with new fortunes minus any sense.  Every last one crashed The Game skill-less.  What guaranteed them a seat at The Round Table was the money they threw about.  Nar one could or was qualified to maintain their assumed position without those ill-gotten funds.  And…  They all began to cry out the same phrase.

The Boogie Man like Nursery Rhymes were created to strike fear in those not knowin’ why or how the legend was formed.  All Tall Tales are based on a foundation meant to create a phobia, instill negativity so as to keep everybody away from…  The one thing identified and spotlighted within those same Nursery Rhymes.  The Player is the modern day Boogie Man.

Make Believe; the monster you find in most rooms.  Many of those who say they hate, specifically The Player wouldn’t even know a Player if one stepped right-up and took a seat besides them.  When someone is duped especially the small minded ones they can’t get past the assumed public embarrassment and…  Phobias rise and those believing they’ve been made the fool immediately take on another persona.  In their shallow mind they embrace the hate and…  Soon what is perceived takes over and their public identity blends with their private one as they began to think and act in a confused manner hatin’.  “Hatin’” is an energy consuming endeavor with no upside.

The End Game whether it be He or She when engaged in the intimate pursuit of another is about “tappin’ that Booty” and no matter the way He/She approaches, everybody knows the cost of entry.  ‘Cept, somebody has to be vilified and it is; The Player.  Because of the hypnotic way they’ve cultivated their speech and mannerisms, seemingly “rockin’ everybody to sleep” they’ve been marked.  The anomaly here is that The Player isn’t ‘pose to have it like that unless their already papered-up.  Another phrase snatched from The Players’ Lexicon means have money.  That “Make it rain” which attracts everyone to the trending strip clubs; nothin’ new and anyone true to The Game isn’t about to…  Make it rain.  Surprisingly somebody already knows this.  The Rules Of Gold speak on a Fool and their quickly disappearing monies.

Hostilities where The Player is concerned; nothing new.  Even when talking about discriminate based on concealed profiling because of One’s race.  Yes, Playing While Black “PWB” gets no recognition what so ever even if they have amassed money.  These tactics/strategies deployed without thought or question and why?  Yes again; those who sprout from such a contaminated field have been fully indoctrinated as far as who to fear and maintain the election of the One targeted; The Player.

Playin’ isn’t about chasin’ women through psychological manipulation, Playin’…  It’s about understanding your place in relations to what you’ve been given innately.  Taking that and establishing your position in life.  Once the position is secured knowing the essence of you will not be duplicated, move in for the win.  Probably why everyone Hates yet keeps trying to embrace the persona of; The Player.

Is The Player corrupt, abusive when seeking another to stand besides ‘em?  Is The Royal Saudi FAM.?  Is anybody who gains global notoriety and imposes their insatiable need to fed sexually with one outside of the One they chose to represent as their significant other? The inquiry should be…  Don’t hate The Player but develop an understanding of The Game.  Identify what’s the motivation where He and She are concerned.  The King of Saudi Arabia has numerous wives and I don’ know how many children.  Is it right to be in a relationship consisting of One male and many many females?  This I’ll answer.  Depends on what your Doctrine of Living says.

Geneticist now know DNA has an imprint based on environmental encounters.  This imprint causes a structural change passed down within the lineage, but…  I’m not in trippin’ off this as I knew long ago I was my Father’s son.  No “Momma’s baby Daddy’s maybe” where I was concerned.  The reality of this means regardless of the belief everyone starts the process of living with a blank slate, once experiences begin to mount a switch turns on.  What was is rediscovered again and how One relates has what is known as a pre-advantage.  Sorta’ like you’ve been there before.  The key to success is recognizin’ but still the chanting begins.  The Player knows and take the position of; “You’ll hate me now cause you’ve hated before. The beauty is I don’t give ‘ah F**k”.

Psssss: A text to text for your preview because…  Everybody luvs to get into everybody else’s business.

She: How are you?
He: I’m good
She: Great, you’ve been on my mind and I thought I’d reach out..?
He: If U had me on your mind then what’s the new methodology to makin’ money?
She: Package your essences and put it on the market
He: Some things can’t be explained, re-arranged, mini-made & delivered to the masses.
Gotta go through the fire so the sticky stuff can be burnt off.

She: You got that right. This is a trade secret no one will ever know.
He: Trade Secrets; I like that.
She: I’ll trade you some of yours for some of mine…
He: I’m gonna give you a pass on that cause your head will swell on the things I show and
tell. Then, I’m gonna have to tax ‘dat ass in a psychological sense. You’ll get mad,
wanna stray and… When you re-surface believin’ you’re GameTight we’ll have to do it
again.

He: (cont) Men sharpen Men & it takes a Woman to keep him polished. Where FOLK get
twisted is thinking the gleam comes from the shine. The real is knowin’ the composition
of the base elements.

10 minute later
She: Best concession in the industry
She: My pleasure

Much of what’s goin’ on today at least that which clicks with the masses is said to have “cross-over appeal”.  Being able to “cross-over” has many disadvantages.  Go to Starbucks order up an El Grande, find your spot, park it, ease the lid off and inhale.  A bouquet of aromas play with your senses with a very small percentage even being what it is you have just purchased. Still the sip is slurped and… Despite not saying it or thinking it one thing is for certain, you know you’ve been fooled.  Like She who’s the second party in the text above who thought she knew the narrative.  Her operative narrative was; “I can see your beauty”.  She couldn’t see a ‘thang because she has a preconceived notion.  Her narrative should have been “Now you know I won’t see a thing because I want that money so let me play alone in hopes you won’t discover I’m way outta my league”.  Don’t descend to such a depth, become a pillar in society while having no real culture and began the slow private descent into subjugating (forcing into submission) the weak who’ve…

Yes, I do this, and…   My doctrine gave me access to a Discipline leading to a foundation building bridges. When One isn’t fulfilling their part of the agreement I have options. Manipulations of words? No, understanding of what’s required to sustain life while avoiding the madness that destroys life. This is what’s meant by “Need to know”.

Marginalized? You can only contain that which fits into the margin.  FOLK are gonna look, watch and imagine what they want and as they do they will readily adopt the mystic of…  Seeing those who are assumed a Player while saying, “Are you The Player cause if you are I’m gonna hate”.

Player, G has a PhD in this ology…

Posted in Communications, Men&Women, Relationships with tags , on December 31, 2013 by ichas8440

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Eyes rolled.  Noses with super inflated nostrils sucking up all the air.  Evidence of a fully engaged psychological episode moving way off into the zone of discontent.  G…  Watched and images of a rabid dog came immediately to mind.  And, He sat there, comfortable as he flavored his coffee, swished the spoon around with a grace unseen under such circumstances.  Composure when confronted with such a stressful situation conveys a powerful vibe to those intent on sending negative vibes.  Especially those Haters.

Hatred is nothing and everyone is born with something.  Hating is learned, acquired by those who hang out and around with…  Haters.”

When asked “R U Ah Player“, by one of those silly enough to abandoning their own comfort such as sipping on a cup of coffee while enjoying the sights and sounds paraded right before their eyes…  Was all G needed to see and re-acquire the attitude for such an occasion, and so.  He smiles and responds with a non-audible reply.  It was his demeanor, the visual looks projected which said “he” was the one who belongs and they.  Were the ones lost.

Doctors become Medicine men and women because they have a passion backed with a focused ability allowing them to rise to the occasion once and when their professional adaptation has been complete.  Can a Doctor be a Player?  Yes, especially by present day definitions.  Just as an Athlete assumes the position when an inquiry is made as to.  “R U a professional athlete?”  He or she who is, knowing what they do will reply by defining exactly what it is they do, because.  What one, who achieves the consciousness to humbly inhale the rarefied air reserved for those who…  Have…  re-ascended know one thing.  The level in which they circulate professionally and personally is based on one difference.  They refuse to allow society to demonize who they are by what they do.

A Player is anyone who approaches what they do with a passion seldom understood by most.  To Play is to understand with a precise exactness that of which you do well in and excel in, with a proficiency others mainly only dream about.  A Player confined or limited by the pursuit of stupid stuff.  The re-qualification of the meaning of the word making those who are demonic has only added another layer of ignorance to the social consciousness of the public at large.  When those not knowing, hear it as its now being put down, they say, “This is not what we see or say is a Player, you’ve got us twisted“.  Hummm, these replies re nothing more than deflections.  A way to maintain their sanity when what should really be considered is.  Asking why you are even using the terminology employing the word “twisted”.  Most don’t even know where the colloquialism derived from.

The word “twisted” is extracted from the vernacular of those in The Loop.  Those considered of a sub-culture of which, most who are active within all contemporary cultures look to in order to pretend as if they know what’s goin’ on.  Call this a Rights of Passage by the un-initiated and yes, I know the collective definition of Player is way different than what it is, because.  Few know what a Player is with even less understand what is required to be one.

Player, Playa, all the same and everyone has picked up the mantel that has labeled one as anyone who has no respect for women and discards ’em like you would a used napkin.  Hummm, in the more upscale eateries a napkin is usually a fine piece of linen.  Sometimes a 800 thread count swatch of colored cotton in a broad plaid color formation.  “Whoa, I wasn’t even thinkin’ like that, and this is your analogy?”.  Again, many are with those who’ve accepted the labels spread by those who…  Hate.

Unannounced but recognized immediately a lady appears.  Like someone has flipped a switch preventing those who wanna look from looking, they force themselves to not stare, but.  Not a one misses her as she sashays effortlessly between the tables and sits her delicious self right next to G.  Male patrons are now drooling, fumbling with the conversation they had gladly and previously enjoyed with the ones’ their with.  Some are even acting like dogs, sniffing the air in hopes of getting a stronger indication of her scent.  Some would have paid just to get a whiff of her panties.  Her counterparts, a mix.  Some gave her props by  visually acknowledging all she represented.  Even speaking up on her choice of clothing.  But none were the slightest bit aware that she had recently withdrawn from the life reserved for those demonized based on public perception of…  Who women like she, represented.  Was the confusion based on mis-interpretation or was she just…   Assimilating?

Vanessa and G drank, laughed, buttered their bread, looking and doing what everyone else did when dining.  V, as referred to by G said any woman who’s watched those shows about “Cat Houses” aka “Legalized Ho Houses” or any other T. V. Reality Show where the man or woman is powerful,  Getting paid to manage another, demanding while steppin’ all over those whom they manage are actually supportive of the Pimp type.  Why?  Because the characteristics of a Pimp are within the same leadership dynamic of those large and in full charge in most legalized orders.  R these pillars in society, Titans of industry, Media and or whatever ,”Players”?

G is someone few know little about.  Personally, professionally or publicly.  People hate because this is a collective position based on fearful FOLK who’ve been imprinted mentally.  Like lambs who are nothing more than sheep, following within a flock lead by a Herder who is steep in…  Hatin’.   “This is not me.”  So you say.  Check out the sites where He or She seek a relationship with another.  The number one statement in support of what I’m saying goes like this.  “If you’re a Player, please don’t contact me“.  Oh, so ‘ya know, general consensus that say who and what FOLK are.  Will be, wanna be, are reflective of those who are attracted to such social outlets.

If a Player is one who chases the opposite sex and in some cases, the same sex, the majority of the professionals on deck.  No matter their walk within society are…  A Player.  That is, based on the defining characteristic/traits within leaders, commanders, CEO’s, Motivational Bamboozlers and or otherwise.

William “Bill” Clinton has one of the smartest women of modern society on his side.  There’s vicious rumors Baracca and Michelle Obama are experiencing similar issues like what Hillary went through when those same scandalous words gained momentum through media blast about their “extra curriculum sexual activities” .  Player you say?  You ain’t even knowin’.  Players are in every bedroom community, standing on the Pulpit, sucking out the fat in the capacity of your Surgeon.  Presiding over civil and criminal proceedings from the position of Your Honor.  And the list continues.

G, consummated individual, smooth, aloof.  Not really concerned or pre-occupied in what most think of him, unless.  This one is of the mindset to…  Stalk.  G…  Attracted to women because of the biological, psychological and emotional under-current stuff that’s going on when he sees or considers one who is worthy of his attention. Passion is a driving force he understands.  The women he’s enjoyed within his intimate circle would go beyond laying with him, they’d die for him.  Was it a manipulation thing?  Did G have some seventh or eighth sense giving him an ability to brainwash on sight?  Was G practicing in the ‘Hood along with others who came from the same environment, studying about this Dynamic Ancient Art under the forever present watching eyes of those who’ve…  Monitored and maintained this social construct leading to racial profiling and isolation of those within, and.  Some how, still managed to come outta the same “Rag-Tagged” community, go forth, profile and defile any and every female who came into his sights, without.  Those same watchful eyes of those scared types who defined the label of who he was in the first place?  Whoa, G, those like him, must be some tremendously crafty ones.

Knowledge will go beyond setting anyone on the journey to freedom, but.  Way too many rather stick themselves on stupid and remain spectators.  When anyone is made to wear a jacket that doesn’t fit and…  The jacket really doesn’t belong to them but they gladly put it on is.  A Zip Damn Fool.

Dignity is something which few have.  Dignity like respect is a characteristic worn like a well designed piece of clothing.  When it fits everyone can tell and knows…  This is you.  Nothing more needs to be said.  Still, its amusing to G, V as in Vanessa how so many say, publicly what they don’t want.  Then, turn down the lights, be able to vamoose to a city where you’re not known and…  The Player appears.

Psssss:  G has a ‘lil She.  She will know the difference of what is as opposed to what is demanded to be.  Players, she won’t fear ’em.  She won’t run from them or anyone as she knows, already what triggers and creates the victim syndrome” .  She will be because…  She is growing to understand the full compliments of her DNA.  24 and 24, which will become dominate and bust through the door!  Ya Feel it don’t cha…

Players Mist

Posted in Communications, Men&Women, psychology, Relationships with tags , , , , , on January 22, 2012 by ichas8440

L.A., where everyone has something to say.  Especially with regard to the terms pertaining to the “Big D” of Kobe & Vanessa Bryant were made public.  “V” departed with three mansions and 75 mil after hangin’ in for 10 yrs and a day.  Oh yeah, minus the pre-nup which is usually standard operating conditions were major money is generated by one of the other, V stepped like many females would love to.  Did she play Kobe because she knew of his activities way before the women running in her circle decided to bust Kobe out and tell her what they felt she needed to know?  Did Kobe play himself because of his failure to put the pre-nup in place way before V put in 10 and a day satisfying cali law pertinent to marriage?

My questions is, who played who?  It was alleged that Kobe participated in way too much extra curriculum outside his marriage, while V wouldn’t even consider it.  Maybe yes maybe no, I won’t speculate on who did what.  Or, who played who.  The qualifying factors gathered in defining “Player“, oh yeah; is in everybody.  This I do know, no matter who you are, where you wanna align yourself, you have an agenda.  Some are straight-up in your face, a la “This Is How I Do It“.  While you have those who engage the opposite sex, “smile ‘an profile” yet never even blink at the idle impressions of indiscretions.  Then, bam.  You’re hit with all these allegations and while you try to get a grip on what it is you are confronted with, the legal folks are dippin’ deep into your pockets.  Never once being recognized for who and what they are, only perceived as representing their client during a time of despair.

What is goin’ on?  What is really going on!  I’ll tell ya cause you really ain’t tryin’ to recognize the real.

Everyone is playing in one fashion or form.  Playing for position, playing to place.  Like a horse race, you’ve got to show to place, and if you cannot place you will not be in a position to ever win.  Straight-that!

People love to recite this term “Play on Playa“.  I hear it when I’m strolling in the park, sighting while enjoying the mall, I’ve even heard the same term while standing in the rear of most corporate elevators watching others board.  Then there are those who’ve incorporated another way of phrasing this term, which goes like this; “You Playa You‘”.  As for this latter one, the person reciting it can usually be found with a somewhat perplexing facial expression, almost as if wanting immediate recognition but not sure if they will get it.  Urban lexicon especially those germane to American English define a Player as one who manipulates women to gain the sexual or financial advantage.  Personally I know exactly what a Player is and…  “Real Talk” there is no distinction with the application of the word based on race, sexual orientation or gender.  I guess things are applied according to what is favorable or.  Who’s writing the story and how what it is as your subject of contention has impacted you; positive or negative.

When narrow-minded ones calculate their steps while crossing my path, occasionally I hear the mumbling of words under their breath.  Words which make up a sentence such as, “I know he’s a Player“, “Oooh girl look at how he is dressed, and check his swag, he’s gotta be a Player“.  These are the types I just wanna say, “‘itch you don’t even know me“, but.  Like a seated Judge who must recluse themselves because they know more about what is actually being present, I do the same.  Yeah, some who are in the mix, running their mouths, really have no idea of what’s really evolving.

Check this, define “hater“.  Hold-up, don’t even engage but allow me.  Hater; one who is envious and re-acts from a position of ignorance.

Check this too, when you think no body is looking at you, what do you really think and do?

Psssss;  Life, it’s a constantly evolving situation.  Maybe, just maybe I’m finally in the mix, revolving right along with those who are meant to…  Evolve.