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She, Her & I. Pedigees…

Posted in Communications, Men&Women, psychology, Relationships with tags , , , , , , , on May 24, 2011 by ichas8440

Let me see, the world was ‘pose to end this past weekend, but it didn’t.  Whoa.  The Terminator aka Arnold, aka The Govenator became The Sperminator when it was finally accept that he was dipping outside of his defined pool; compliments of Maria.  And…  As the issue was taken up via the T.V. series known as (The View) with the pic of the other woman being shown world-wide for the millionth time, well.  That’s when the savage erupted out of Western society via the seated audience.  Seems Arnold’s choice of female fatale wasn’t what anyone wanted her to look like.  Exactly, the audience gave a collective “uggh”  when they saw Mildred on national T.V. .  Well again I say whoa!

Since I’ve been running this blog I’ve realized everybody wants topics with scintillating injections.  Okay, I can do this because my desire to remain “outta the loop” in the sense as being willing to bring it as I know it, this…  Need for scandal doesn’t present any prob. for me.

My take on “Cougars” gained international attention.  The Cougar topic road in behind “Office Romance” another thing I did outside the normal channels in which things are spoken about.  Now I step with “Power Couple Splits”.  I had no intentions of serializing this topic, but…  With how Mildred has been made out as this creepy, side-winding vile creature.  One that ruined the lives of one of Americas’ “hands off couples”; I’ve gotta speak on it.

One thing that stands out with Arnold, Maria & Mildred isn’t the whole threesome thing but.  The re intro of the existence of the caste system.  A way of living that hasn’t been exiled like many would want to believe.

My own FOLK have asked me how could Arnold do Mildred when he had Maria and what could she, “Mildred” possibly have in a physical sense of…  Attraction?  When I heard this I knew it wasn’t about her looks alone but her station in life was the bigger part for all the hate!

Psychologist, Social therapist, law enforcement, Lawyers, Clerics, everybody is rallying around Maria, discussing the negative effects all this is gonna have on her kids.  The masses are speaking about Arnold’s toxic future and how long they anticipate it’s gonna take for him to bounce back politically and entertainment wise, but.  All Mildred gets is a collective “uggh”.  Media focus has been on Maria & Arnold with all respect due & assumed.  As for Mildred or “Patty” as she is affectionately referred to, isn’t even spoken about in the same equation.  Hummm, I’m wondering who is it the masses think they are associated with in all this; scintillation?

The perceived pedigree, un hum.  Arnold and Maria are the “flava’ of the day” while Mildred is being avoided like the plague where the masses are concerned, and…  Where the actually focus within all this should be directed at, it isn’t.  I wonder…  Yes I wonder. Who’s living in an artificial world?

In doin’ this in Real Time comin’ at ‘cha with Real Talk I’ve gotta do a serial thing with this…  Assumed Pedigree.

Touching on the issue regarding looks once before, I didn’t take it to the point of including geographical considerations when assigning value and importance with looks.  Mildred was said to be from Guatemala, fiftyish and married.  The region historically produces workers for many of the Western Societies households.  As for age, it depends on the quality of life one had before age is reduced to a negative factor.  Still, Mildred equals worker; so what!  Mildred, aka “Patty”, female; woman with thoughts intentions and desires just like Maria but… Mildred doing what she did would never be forgiven, accepted or valued like Maria.

Maria, “mad money family” where the males within the FAM constantly do promiscuity as if they’ve invented it, that is…  If you keep up on the media releases, but…  Ain’t nobody willing to factor this into Maria’s perception of life and how things go when consider He&She.  Still, Maria is sainted and looked upon as she who isn’t a part of this public show.  Even Oprah got into it with her divisional thang when Maria appeared on Oprah’s going off the air special, still.  This doesn’t alter what is which is, pedigree personified!

Male & Females seem to wanna be divided and it can always be traced to this caste system.  Oprah is rich but she isn’t wealthy.  Wealth is defined by money kept and time in The Game as in category.  Oprah has been granted an exception but by who?  Kennedy being Maria is wealth based on money that became power, passed down by a  more powerful lineage who saw and understood what could come when and if they applied it right.  But…  This insight seems to have missed a generation, namely Maria’s and you know why?  Looks!  Physical looks will always play a role in how you will be perceived and accepted by peers, circle of appointment and FAM members.  Maria was born into money but Maria looks no better than Mildred.  Realistically, internationally, locally or actually.  Nothing separates them where men are concerned because they each have that same…  Shall I say; part!

The audience on The View only spoke what they know as the truth when it comes to looks.  It’s like this, I’m certain many of those who went “uggh” had the same term expressed to them way before Mildred’s face was captured in the monitor that day, but…  The audience like all people wants to be with the in-crowd.  Everybody wants to think they are with the pedigree that is perceived to be “it”.  Well guess what?  Maria is with the “IT CROWD” but does she actually reflect the physical images of that crew?  No one is willing to say it publicly but you all know what I’m sayin’, even if you side-step it.

Something else.  Arnold isn’t absolved from any of this either.  His background includes generations of Nazism that no one will speak about.  Also, a woman by the name of Gigi Goyette Jeffers, think (Little House  on The Prairie T.V. show) was 16 when she stated having sex with Arnold who…  At the time was kicking 28 all in the rear.  Then, because it was so good to both of ‘em they kept it up years later as Maria slept down the hall in another hotel room where Gigi had a room, but…  Nobody is talking about the moral violations against Gigi or criminal allegations as a result of this past lifestyle.

Oh yes, in California there is no “consent” law when a female is under the age of 18, no matter the circumstances if and when sex is involved.  Gloria Allred the Attorney has been retained by Gigi and Gloria’s people have said they have no intentions of blasting Arnold’s business about town, but…  By releasing this info which Gloria’s people have had to investigate, they now know they have Arnold’s full attention.  Hummm, what does this “pedigree” thing define?

John Connolly journalist “Premiere’s 2001” & John Carroll former Editor for The L.A. Times had Arnold’s well documented transgressions down years ago but…  The story was killed because…  Arnold was now with and of the right pedigree.  Today when these media people were polled as to their opinions both said the story isn’t new or news.  The publics’ impression has shifted because there is a scandal factor being superimposed.  What scandal?  The fact that as governor of cali Arnold couldn’t balance the books and get the budget straight or.  Arnold and his crew with their penchant for maintaining street cred manipulated the masses with an over the top Hollywood style presentation as he…  Re-established another image of another level of his…  Pedigree!

A great U.S. general “Douglas MacArthur” once said, “A Warrior prays for peace”.  When I heard this I knew the man had lived the life he personified.  Had to in order to be able to arrive at such a significant conclusion.  I am The 22nd G, I play to win and if by chance I loose, I still win because I have learned from my days of…  Well to complete this sentence using the correct analogy from the culture I’ve stepped from as in lived…  That would be to say I was once a Player, a Being who engages others for personal gain. But hey…  Isn’t that what everybody does?  Engages another for personal gain even if it requires crossing; pedigree lines.

In dialogue with another about this topic she sat with me as we explored most of the aspects this issue has unveiled.  Raising one eyebrow as if to prepare for something, nonchalantly she says.  “People are so disrespectful when it comes to others feelings.  Maybe Maria thought she was the one to change Arnold.  Maybe she was from a class that looked the other way for years when it came to their men’s indiscretions, but…

She left me hangin’ on this and I sorta knew it was comin when she said, “but”.  No matter, I did understand where she was going.  Some would say in a situation such as this, Arnold is at fault because he played with the hired help.  Abusing his power, a power that he sought and enveloped when he married Maria.  One who was definitely above his class.  Hummm, there goes that class thing easily aligning itself with power.  So now I say, tell me something, how do you make power and class work when each intoxicates while corrupting with a high degree of finite? No answer?  Don’t trip, I’ve got ‘cha.

Whenever one cross a border with the desire of attracting while interesting another don’t forget certain things when it’s about the sexes.  From a worker to those who hire the workers, each still has the same feelings when emotions are aroused!

Pedigrees, where all this began.  Poodles sniff at Doobies, Pit Bulls feel isolated just like Labs who have fallen from the top pedigree in the chain.  So what, all dogs go woof!                 

Psssss; None of what has been said will change perceptions.  Straight up, any which way it lays, sex sells!  Mildred being a woman of 5 decades, Maria comin’ from old money and Arnold…  Hey, he’s an actor; what can you say or expect.  Expect this.  Life is sought in salacious doses.  That’s why when I write about things that others don’t wanna mention, I get a massive amount of hits…  It’s all about somebody’s character in assassination mode, remnants of those we have known or personally associated with and have had around us, but…  No one wants to say anything when someone else walks up and has boogers hangin’ out of their nose!