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“MindYa…”

Posted in Communications, Men&Women, psychology on May 25, 2017 by ichas8440

 

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Matilda, after she said what she came to say started a mental process within my mind. Images I’ve seen many ‘ah times. Just not of the enormous white rabbit by the same name know to hop around and happy to just be around.  Nor did I catch a glimpse in any of the recesses of my mind of the Australian counterpart using the same name whose from Down Under.  The Kangaroo usually seen with her mate Jackie Leggs as they position themselves while intimidating all the other local residents.

My Matilda was more so related to Jane from the Doe lineage.  A product of her cultural.

Cultural in this sense defines a group of FOLK and their distinctions, arising from particular beliefs which morph, forming traditions sustained, based on realities manifested from collective habits.

Matilda.  Because of the complementary gender association through name could be your Mother.  Also reflective of the sister when conscious of the implied female of the species. My Matilda…  Resilient, resourceful and due to the conflicting situation, leaning towards vengeance.

Trigger, let her tell it, activated all because of her her choice of mate as in; man.

Hers, Bernard.  Elongated for Bernie.  But not the “Bernie Mack-Man” I’ve grown to recognize and honor.  This one put the “B” in Beast.  Don’t be alarmed or surprised wondering how anyone can align themselves with another carrying such a dubious distinction.  Bernie has it his way in every way each and every day.  Won’t stop, can’t stop and isn’t too concerned about who drops due to his engaging flops.  Still one would think he’ll slow his roll before Matilda moves any closer to the edge.  Personally I know change is on the horizon for those known as Bernie.  At least, not ‘til they realizes it’s not all about what’s in their head.

Matilda expressed to me a certain “need to feed” when it came to sex and his infallible, indomitable focus.  One so demanding consumption of his mental was all but a given.  I had a prob. with this verbal projections because the visual I created from such an imaginative articulation was in no way foolproof.  Bernard, yes Bernie was a product of his nature.  No different than a Stud when viewing any string of Mares prancing around in his field of view.

Hearing such an analogy arouses contempt and to that I say.  Don’t like being associated with animals, get use to it.  We’re forms in one way or another of the mammalian linage with no separation when it comes to matters influences through biology.

Sex, the thought leading to the act cannot is not regulated by the psychology of those in participation nor is miraculously toned down by any emotional continuity.  The term “Just say no” where

“Huu-Maans” are concerned if and when speaking about sex is, B.S..  Another truth is when the source of stimuli is identified, understood, and masturbation occurs regardless of the method and means of the delivery, “No” will not be recognized or adhered with.

Females have been granted a false sense of power with this all commanding word.  Most of ‘em know this instinctively but despite of their intellect at what point within the rotation do they decided to utter this word?  Seldom before the first glass of alcohol and then it’s a little late.

“Al-Co-Al-Cohol”, the legalized suppressor.  Used so they say to enhance the acceptance of the festive activities but you know.  Inhibitor like you don’t wanna believe and “She” still takes this course.

It’s not just the mental scenery galloping throughout their minds, overlapping, blending, creating psychological images conducive while seeking the extended version of the evolutionary process.  Fact is, this is the cultural.

Not into alcoholic libations you say, then let the music continue to play.

Music can calm the savage in any Beast.  Music, depending on the melody and accompanying rhythm section puts resistance on mute too.  The highs and lows makin’ moves on the senses, intonations engaging on a cerebral level activating switches which many would rather not have on display publicly.  Still, when this takes place within the lanes of intimacy…

Sex, it’s not intimacy.  In fact, it’s primal.”

Semantics, if introduces and focused on, everything becomes what ‘cha want it to be and yet and still.  Regardless of how it’s flipped, nothing is gonna alter the interchangeable intangibles and.  Here is where command is established because it is I “The 22nd G” who pushes the package even before it’s opened.  Lifting it, taking full possession of it as I shake and turn it.  Receiving all the indicators giving me further insights to know more than you so I can say with authority.   When and where sex becomes the primary Driver, all things are tangible.  Its all in knowing the full applications.

He/She each know what they believe their aware of but few recognize the automatic mode their entire being operated from and within when living this life.  Some say they are way too mature to get caught-up and maturation is the key.  Okay, riddle yourself this then genius.  How come so many highly educated, economically established, “religiously” structured and usually with FAM..  Pillars of various communities making them total reps. a la John and Jane Q. Citizen but have difficulty when pushed by this one biological functionality known to trigger the desire to engage sexually?

Stud and Mares

Just an analogy and exact for this push towards understanding and gettin’ you head around how to recognize your system before it is activated.

The system, your system, its all dialed in. Synced to a degree that isn’t readily accepted. Mental, physical, bio-social.  All stemming from the physiological and not ever removed and predicated on automatic. FOLK just won’t stop tampering so in time, things stop clicking on a positively positional degree.

Bernie, based on how introduced probably married. Maybe the union is open by designed meaning He/She can do whatever they wanna do outside the house when it comes to sexualization.  Is this painting a picture allowing for a more precise point of perception?  Shouldn’t, the unification between two leading to matrimony has a component few will admit of it’s existence.  Marriages are legal systems with the application being designed to quantify ownership by means of possession.  Don’t agree? Be charged or associated with One facing allegations of any criminal nature and watch how quickly you are reduced to a possession with…  A legal definition immediately introduced by the prosecution qualifying you in a co-conspiratorial way.

Marriage is nothing more than another system.  Propelled by man-made perimeters making restraints artificial. Open, closed, doesn’t matter as the label doesn’t determine or establish any greater exclusivity eliminating problems.

Not married.  Single or merely out and about livin’ your life.  You are subjected to the same laws governing sex and.  This is not limited to those following any sense of promiscuity.  Place oneself in that churning, burning situation and even if you deny it, you too will feel the heat.  Those stimuli activating various forms of physical arousal all can be traced back to a highly advances biology.

Where is the key? I want the key to unlock this door because…”

The “because” before the pause.  All for the affect so as to press the mind.  Making “you” yourself connect the dots.  You/I everybody has been there yet collective there’s a refusal to break from cultural norms..  Tradition is the Beast here and it is in view of what has become traditionally acceptable that FOLK need to see the historical significance with regard to what no longer applies.

Stud, Stallion.  Mare, Philly.  Reliant on simplicity.  That’s what they do.  See, feel, do.  Procreation at it’s finest and…  Very “Re-Cre-Ation-Able” at all times but for them they are functioning within their laws of nature.

Man/Woman laws, restrictive, relative and really outdated but.  Mandated because these are what have been rushed in place to maintain the fabric of any social construct.

Matilda, Bernard, yeah.  Eventually the two got with me and it was a threesome. Matilda was blasted because of her position to look the other way when Bernard decided to act on the fact that it was his world and he was damn sure gonna live it no matter who disapproved.  Bernard, he listened.  At least when it came to the light that he needed to live that world and.  Being the so called Leader of his pack demand the best also outta whomever he decided to unitize with while developing their world, with…  ‘Ah ‘lil something extra.  Voice the fact that whatever one was feelin’ the other more than likely had the same inclinations even if they performed differently.

Psssss; Neglect is a Mutha.  Allow it to creep into existence and the cost will be unbearable.  Face fears, understand phobias and handle it.  Speak on what you want, how you want it and when by chance it won’t be, maybe…  You might wanna let it be because somewhere along the journey a light will shine in your world too.  Those illuminations will confirm that there is life outside of yours.  You in your thrust spreading hell, won’t be welcomed.

“A Moment With The Rogue”

Posted in Communications, Men&Women, psychology, Relationships on April 23, 2017 by ichas8440

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Seriously”

Fo Sho”, and if you expect the dialogue to proceed down these lines maintaining the culturally colloquial speech patterns so it can be concluded, “Idiot on the rise” then… Let’s ride. How anyone speaks doesn’t necessitate being “Woke” or in accordance with any status quo, you feel me.

She made mention there was proof of her Significant Other chasing what wasn’t at home.

Possibly it was the non-committal look etched across my face but… She went nasty and into full attach mode. “You think you’re this super hard person and no matter what you hear it’s not going to get a rise out of you”.

The “rise” now that was funny. If she wanted a rise maybe she’d consider starting with the Significant Other she brought up thinkin’ I was gonna concur and offer an elaborate method to change the dynamic.

Super hard person”. I know a duo that fit this image. In the mist of the night while gathering my gear an approaching crew came outta the shadows. The Cat with me noticing them quickly rose up. Slippin’ on his gloves he started to say something ‘til. Out the corner of my eye appeared his Partna’. Like a squadron of U.S. Predator War Planes minus most of their peers, these two still assembled. Together they stood, in the ready and as if dialed into the same script said to me, “Man you need to go, we’ve got this”.

I am far from being hard.

Life, at least mine, has been a Venture of choice. The Journey, just a chronologically composite and I remained stationary when these two Cats spoke. Whatever was goin’ down I wasn’t running. Nor did they. The two Johnnies’. Johnnie Johnson and Johnny Blade, friends to the end. They stood against all odds and with them it wasn’t a title for some movie. Their lives, our lives were eclipsing in real time and the next scene… You had no idea how intense it may be. Later I found out they came up in a ‘hood sorta isolated and because of such, formed their own crew known as Bounty Hunters.

Man my woman comes up and says to me let me tell you how many had been in me before you. Man how you deal with something like this?”

How many; Truth. It won’t be told. Our social construct is built on deception and when it comes to the lives of He/She, the codex is totally different. Under this scenario He, champion during any conquest. She, straight out Ho by any default. ‘Ol Boye came to me with a heavy thought on his mind. One that made him slow his roll and reconsider his worth. His life had been Hijacked long ago if the possibility of who was on deck before he even stepped foot on was any indication of how things would precede from that point.

My words to him received another indication of how twisted his mind-set had become. “Man you act as if you are immune to this here s**t. It ain’t like you haven’t heard s**t like this from your woman.”

My woman. Wifey. From the moment you enter The Game it’s not so much a situation of graduation when encountering and developing another relationship. To graduation simply means to move on of be passed on. As ‘Ol Boye quickly discovered, the next one discovered during my ascension won’t be a duplication of any other. Elevation, that what it’s about.

Semantics I know all too well and the understanding of the Trickeration spread within this life we lead is all; subjective. I take this life very personal, meaning everything begins from an objective point of view based on comin’ from an outside source. Once you marinate on that stuff, then strain it a finalization take place. The essence of what it ‘pose to be is now brought forth. Pure satisfaction in One’s steps into their reality. Live yours ‘cause you can bet they gonna live theirs and your confused state of being will only encourage their “subjectification” of your world.

Morals, Values, Standards designating Principles of survival. Bump that.

If you think He/She for whatever reason they come to you and say something are. Naturally like that you’ve fooled yourself long ago. Experience is gained through exposures. How One takes that, magnifies that will be based on…

Fluidicity” and you might not locate this here spelling in your locally available dictionary but don’t discount it. As everyone has finally accepted each year new words seem to be added to old languages increasing their accessibility in comprehension so. Yeah, maybe a conclusion you don’t wanna accept but it is what it is and I just upgraded your consciousness.

Real Talk, keep certain things to yourself. What matters is how you perceive yourself to be. When seeking acceptance the first thing is to know that no matter what another says, does, it all begins and ends with you.

Psssss; I like this trending thing when One presents something and everybody is waiting for more and while they salivate, conjuring within their minds what’s comin’ next. He/She who is being heard inhales, glances off into the distance and… Drops the mic. Not indicative of hard, just.   Dramatic in an extreme sense and I like it too.

Intuitive Narrative

Posted in Communications, Men&Women, psychology, Relationships with tags on April 1, 2017 by ichas8440

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Why do people cheat on each other?

Again…

Yes, because despite of all the polls with scientific support data saying it happens between the seventh and eighth year of a relationship. He/She seeks the companionship of another to compare then reconnect with what they have at home is all B.S..

When the question came to me by way of a couple still functioning as that couple I wanted to slip back into the demonic nature and look at ‘em for what they were. Sheep being lead to the slaughter.

1st few even make it to a seven year point in a monogamous sense let alone an eighth. As far as doing a comparison. If you are runnin’ to another for sexual gratification it ain’t a damn thang’ happenin’ at home in the way of stimuli or satisfaction relevant for comparison.

Good thing I had purged those thoughts long ago but to do so requires exact levels of maturation. E.I. (Emotional Intelligence) is but one. Mental Mastery is another and don’t think because you comprehend the words in use you’ve got the discipline to configure the content when it comes.

Demons don’t knock on any door.

Demons traverse dimensions so if you aren’t accepting of their Skill-Sets, can’t respect when and how they will be arrive, kickin’ your azz as they use you as the conduit advancing their darkness. Then, don’t think you even know about demonic natures. The compulsion driving the sex to have more sexual partners can become very diabolical.

FOLK seek the attention of another because that sameness pushes them. Refusal to maintain a continuum with the vortex which allowed them to connect from The Gate. FOLK want that feeling that is so fleeting and shows no desire in returning but don’t wanna accept the reservation had always been for two.

Will I ever quench this “thrust”?”

When Hell freezes over and sense nobody has every returned from the place making the phrase moot, I’m gonna stop right here and define the ascension from the only real point of reality.

Mine

Addictions. They happen because of a chemical dump taking place deep inside the brain. Once it happens and takes you to places so vivid, exposing you to things unimaginable before, an emotional connection is made. Emotions are a direct reflection of consciousness not what’s really goin’ on in One’s sub-conscious. With addiction you’ve finally been somewhere and the desire to return burns so you stay on The Hunt, but. Dial it Down and lock into what is necessary in the way of sustainable unification between two, then you’ll start to make what makes up dreams your living reality.

Yes, sub-conscious manifest into daily conscious and your dreams become your real world.

Somebody said I do things on the fly and I immediately shot back with, “If you won’t think before you speak you are just reacting”. This is to know that remove the action and you get bogged down in the sameness. Hence, boring!

I love Pancakes. Mine must be prepared using natural ingredients minus artificials. Bring something, anything made in the Lab. the results cannot be anymore than what had been prescribed. Laboratory stuff follows a clinical standard, this allows for the conclusion to be A, B but not C. “C” signifies the Creativity needed to enhance a fluidness. Remove this factor and bet you’ll usher in the X-Factor.

X-Factor

Those components defining what is unknown. What I know is based on taking it there. Pushing the barriers, going beyond the mere testing of the established boundaries making my own perimeters flexible. This is to know what gives the other a sense of those chemical dumps chasing is… What my dreams are founded in making their needs wants and desires my. Our primary Objective.

Objective/Goals, they aren’t the same.

The former is based on not being subjective while the latter is cognitive in origin. Like semantics don’t get caught-up in the illusion of what is but make yours “Is”. This is the prerequisite when wanting to avoid the scent of another while lying to yourself once you’ve laid besides them. Push and know that the pull is coming. Stop thinking you are built like that when the reality is once you make a move you’re not even equipped to manage the onslaught of those emotions that will push up from your psyche destroying what you thought you were gonna handle.

Psssss; This is where I was gonna say; “All B.S. and just as it registered in your pysche’ let it be know this is an April Fools joke” but. You couldn’t handle the shock. Sooooo, let’s do this. Sex, is not to be quickly assigned to the addiction category but for the purpose of defining. Yes, y’all get it. That drive pushin’ one or the other to seek another has to be. Explored again and again ‘cause everyday in every way some where. Somebody is gonna flip the script while saying. “I don’t know why I drifted but, will you forgive me”. Now, don’t ‘cha feel the purpose was served once again.

“When”

Posted in Communications, Men&Women, psychology, Relationships on March 1, 2017 by ichas8440

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In my language, marks a moment in time.  Tailored clothes, clean, fast to the extreme mobile transpo.  Wining/Dining with an inspiring other seated right across from you and yet, that was…  “When”.

During another period the confirmations of when meant a smile, a soft touch in a way extending the reassurance needed to keep it movin’.  “Hummm, when was this”.  Possibly why I continue to…  “Win”.

A play on words?  Not so.  More so an understanding of life and how to keep it tight.  A connection within time over a considerable amount of space maintaining an concordance so as not to miss even insignificant dates.

Whoa, here we go again and this time the inclusion of the word “Date”.  A subtle reference of another so as to keep this creative unlike any other.  Could it be that even way back then these two knew something which would keep them in!  And you thought I didn’t know the many computations indicative with the “When”.

You say, I say, they say but still, it’s really just one way, and it’s all a matter of…  When.

Luggage, in this sense are those things which weigh you down.  Causing One’s roll to slow. Preventing progress despite all the test passed with that degree of finesse.  Yet, the “when”.  Yes, that “win” must be allowed to filter in.

Complications created by all the mess, things pushed up and under because you know you’re not fit to contest.  Again, this is why “this” win hasn’t settle in.

It comes a point in everyone’s time when even something as simple as a provocative rhyme defines how high anyone can climb.  Those whys, the what fors, things forgotten which is probably why many fail to…  Score.

Score”, a method in which to tabulate the position of that Date or.  Recognize the one thing which resonates.

Words in my language can be confusing but when you know who is sayin’ what clarity begins to shine leading to the significance of the tailored clothing along with the clean and fast mobile transpo and…  That date with the most significant other where the dining was so so fine, because.  Because who and what stands besides you may have been “before” you in a conceptual sense which is why, they waited for the mental to “kick in”.  Hummm, and you thought they weren’t really that deep of a friend.

Again think of…  When.

Psssss: A flower positioned on the back thigh, an invitation suggesting a reason why or an illusion used to compliment something only you see within your eye.  If you think for even a minute there isn’t an importance then…  You don’t understand the significance of…  When.

Sonic Sensation

Posted in Communications, Men&Women, psychology, Relationships with tags on January 25, 2017 by ichas8440

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Science and the FOLK practicing within the setting designed as a lab just released their findings on the (One Night Stand).  The moment after males are cool with the fact of the thrill being gone whereas the female retires into her psyche somewhat depressed.  She in her minute of reflection recognizes He probably wasn’t worth the drip.

The fact had been known long ago She is more into the causes and not so much the effects where Fellas, they want that lovin’ feelin’ then, “Keep it movin’“.

Scientist came to the conclusion He/She do the “Wild Thang” and despite what’s goin’ on via Social Media, circulating in the booths when friends gather to hear the re-telling of Who’s Who between the sheets. She is coming with a higher unseen biological intensity with regard to choice.

Surprised!  Maybe to some but for those in the know, not so.

Sonic Sensation is about the Vibe.  Sensing while feelin’ a tremble way way down, somewhere in your physicality where your neural network syncs all other networks giving you the consummated lead-in.  Consider hearing a tone and despite who may be around you start to feel a certain pulsation.  Your head starts to move with a rhythm as your eyes focus but.  You psychologically transfer to another zone altogether.  Conscious elevation begins and it’s possible to maintain the cadence established for the engagement within the conversation but.  You are on a totally different plane.

Been there before?  I…  Stay there because to dis-engage from the aspects of life that gives you the edge in life is.  Like they say when the weak run up on the strong, “Resistance, should’ve thought about that before you rushed up in here“.

Life is fluid and attraction between He/She regardless of initially being based on the visual is all about that chemical.  The scent trail, you have already sensed.  Nano type particles specifically designed with you in mind have morphed in the wind and found you as you’ve inhaled them.  You can’t see them but they even are dancing on your skin demanding to be let in.  You feel the tingle but.  Like most put it off to the alcohol.  Put if off on another reason while not recognizin’ this is an intro to your physiological season.

Don’t get me twisted I hadn’t always been so attuned to Sonic Sensation but I’m here to attest to the wisdom dropped into each who slows their roll and accepts the reality that life.  Livin’ it is a process.  One moment you don’t know a damn thang but as time passes you begin to realize nothing passes but expands.  Opening up another dimension revealing to those who are conscious “Woke” that you still are on the late freight when it comes to what truly exist in this life but.  Continuity is gaining giving you a clarity unmatched if only you just.  Feel the Vibe.

Visually He/She has always known who is built for the survival of the species.  FOLK flinch when contemplating if another has good hygiene’s and the thought is made public, still.  Personally and privately others, their thoughts, their quirks don’t mean a’thang.  Unification between He/She is biological and needs to have some personal/private components to it.  If only you maintained  the innate dynamic of the; Sonic Sensation.

Psssss; She with the well defined “Twins”,  posessin’ the “Cinnamon Mounds”.  Sides that sorta’ indent blossoming out creating a contour reflecting the shape of a delicious fruit.  He who has that far-away look in his eyes expressing an awareness of people/places and things.  Two basic reflections of a male and female but.  Speaking volumes as they usher in the definition establishing a man, a woman.  If only you hear ’em too.

“What ‘Dat Be G”

Posted in Communications, Men&Women, psychology, Relationships on October 1, 2016 by ichas8440

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A grammatically incorrect sentence? Hardly.

A greetings from One to One who recognize they are comfortable in their own skin.

Verbal communications, audible acknowledgments, inherent. From where I sat and observe, FOLK, their behavior, much pre-dispositioned yet still and all, environmentally impacted. Considering the mapping from an evolutionary tree ain’t a damn bit change since the beginning of time as far as how one group addresses another. What has shifted is the make-up of those groups.

Back-In-The-Day who you were, what you represented, who you associated with and most importantly that personal manifesto inscribed in your psyche’ reflected through your dress code. Today everybody wants to be accepted internationally. FOLK refer to themselves as universal and I think what’s the upside? Personally pacification of the origin of their birth.

Still sittin’, observing, watching; what I see and will stand witness to is the much mis-identification and confusion with regard to what really is.

“Players, charismatic, roguish, demonized, ostracized. Straight-up cast as those you don’t wanna illuminate. ‘Cept, everybody wants to still be… That Player.”

Decades ago with the accessibility of Coca or as most knew it by ‘Cocaine”. Way before the synthesizing resulting in the by-product Crack, those wanting to be with the “In crowd” became, the crowd simply based on possession of a substance thought to make them something they were not. Their manner of speech publicly remained, behind those closed doors hangin’ with the In-crowd they changed. Along with this came another shape-shift. The mental moved to exhibit more. This became evident through their clothing. Those/Them/They, perpetratin’, luvin’ every moment of their new identity and… Seen by others who actually made up the In-crowd as clowns, but. It didn’t slow the transition from John and Jane Q. Citizen personal inauguration into “What is Hip”.

Another colloquialism taken from an era passed. Still it’s a relevant as the day of its creation.

Complaints today are in abundance. He/She are tired of being confronted with another who has no clue as to who they are. Men running around impersonating women. Women more masculine than men and each physiological property basically the same as they were eons ago. Oh, their mind-set. Like a corrupted algorithm and that’s where the switch happened to get flipped.

Like Coca didn’t make anyone a Player, fakin’ your sexual orientation so that you don’t have to compete from the position of who you are won’t make anybody somebody they’ve re-created within their own mind. Social constructs which are always in flux depending on who “On Deck” from a political and economic level won’t justify it either.

I’ve heard from both sexes and those concerns are, “How did we arrive at this point“. Are these FOLK frustrated? Have they been left behind and just can’t make the change? No such thing. What it is is the reality of a decaying society. Whenever culture reaches a zenith the standards, values which pronounces the sanity needed for continuous rotation just stops. Probably as a result of lack of stimuli.

In reflection when I was in my own exploration FOLK always stepped to me saying. “You always out there. What ‘cha gonna do when you come home and find somebody in your bed with yours?” My reply, always sprouted from the point of my truth. “If that’s their choice then she wasn’t mine from The Gate.” With that said and them lookin’ even more perplexed moved me to take further liberty.

For clarification on your push deeper into my life, if this did happened, in my house I’d enter, hear the “motion of my bed” and… Get me a refreshing beverage outta my frig, take a seat in my comfortable chair while easing into one of my musical selections, then. As he stepped out of my bed room, wearing one of my robes I’d simply push past him disappear into the same room. Greet mine and while at it, draw her a tub of water and ask her if she’d like to dial it down aquatically while… Goin’ back into my other room and ask of this invader if he’d enjoyed himself.”

Logical or… From your point of perception the most illogical thing you’ve ever heard. Yeah. Like I’ve known since day one, Players like anyone who excels in what they do, is based on who they are from. Innate? Oh yes so it’s either in or. You’ll not ever be by just because you’ve put on an outfit and an image assumed based on a mind-set is still. Part of an outfit.

Psssss; In recognition of choices, those who aren’t sure of who they are, that’s your disposition. Who you are doesn’t conflict with what I’m about. In all fairness when things go sideways and turmoil is the order of the day, take a place in the spectators area. I promise you’ll witness all those aspects of life which define, separate with an eventual re-format. The distinctions based on Class and Caste will collapse with the end result being a collective plea of; “help me“.

Relationships; Make It Last Forever.

Posted in Communications, Men&Women, psychology, Relationships on September 1, 2016 by ichas8440

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“Inside track; you know.  It’s when you know something others don’t.  When you have it like this recognize and rise. Risk factors decrease and options exercised for success increase.  And don’t even consider the Drama about anything being unethical, divisive tactics, plain and simple.  This is a primary key unlocking emotional bonds which lead to a tight physical connection.  And you know that’s what everybody is lookin’ for.”

Hot topic, hot topic, and…  When considering the title nothin’ last for ever.  But, transcend, push beyond the mundane foundational elements most relationships start from and “Forever And ‘Ah Day” as the term relates to the unification between He/She; all your mental impressions do last.

Everyone says there are a number of typical reasons causing a relationship to collapse.  Money, In-laws, friends gettin’ in your business.  Friends, Fam. sharing yours.  Let’s not forget the professional differences such as the hours set aside to put in work so you can have some semblance of a life and so on and on, but…  This, falls within the category known as “fluff“. Things, circumstances that are there and don’t need to be brought up while expanded upon.

Oh, movin’ ah bit too fast, there is something.  When “She” draws down way more financially than you, don’t trip because this dynamic might not ever change.  Fact is you are pre-programmed by the same social dynamics driving most negative aspects within any social construct. As far as runnin’ off at the mouth, blaming her for flaunting her financial superiority then hinting at the possibility of showing empathy.  Imagining there’s the possibility for a psychological re-direct; forget it.  Recall what you’ve already shown a penchant for.  Dumb stuff!

Hummm, it will be what it is, She has a skill-set guaranteeing the higher income and truthfully…  This being a unity between two, finances should be a formation building block.

Those of the male persuasion I kick it with and no this isn’t to imply an interest in diversionary activities such as homosexuality, bisexuality, poly anything.  We come from men, understand who and what we’re about on various levels so…  We don’t demand a ‘thang as much as command the attention of the woman who “ride and die” for us.  A simple achievement when knowin’ who She is and what She means to the continuation of what “We” as a couple have created.

FOLK get caught-up in what’s going on next door, across the street, in another ‘hood and fail to recognize none of that is or should be what’s going on when it comes to establishing your reasons for steppin’ to and… Attracting the Object Of Your Hearts Desire.

Think “Playing it forward” because that’s what it is.  Playing it forward I will equate like this.  In line to purchase something with those behind you waiting patiently.  You decide to pay for them too.  This is, Playing it forward.  A good thing but if you can’t really absorb such a move especially when you don’t know all that’s coming or may result in; why do it!  The real is you have engaged in an endeavor totally outta your league.  Much like relationships.  He sees her, emotions run rampant, “Gotta have her gotta get that” and.  Sometimes you can’t afford that and this isn’t limited to the money aspect of it.  Flip the script and “She” is on deck.  Spots him, heart doesn’t skip a beat but BEATS uncontrollably.  “He is fine, he’s mine and don’t even know it but I’ll let him know“.  Know what, you are so caught-up in the imagery ’til you have no idea of how your image has resonated within his mind!

“Poppin’ P’s here, poppin’ p’s”, and that’s just what it is.  I’ve dipped into The Vault, dial it down or…  As the trending term is, “Fall Back”.

Fall Back, for those who luv slinging the term but haven’t a clue of what discipline you’ve associated yourself with, check this.  The phrase derives from military tacticians meaning to retreat because “you in way over your head“.

“Don’t panic, there’s light comin'”

Keep it Game Tight, step back and eval..  “Evaluate while remaining On Deck and consider your realistic options because when you retreat you’ve, for all intent and purposes, showed your back.  Graphically and symbolically conveying to He/She that you have no plan of pursuit outside of “hittin’ it” (engage sexually) so why should they even; accept your approach.

Over thinking, what too much analysis?”

Let me tell you something, Consciousness is not regulated to the mind. Your brain is where your thoughts converge, marinate and programs disseminate from.  The brain houses your mind while Consciousness is you. Nothin’ Consciously calls for a long grasp.  It is and will manifest once you let loose and rise with the feelin’.

Food For Thought, Source Code. Additional Eval. matter.

Conversations between He/She need to be…  Inspiring.  Make this connect entertaining and hold their attention by enlightening whomever it is you’ve stepped to.  Back In The Day some said I always found a way to get deep when speaking to others.  And!  My thing was, “Why not”.  Who likes to talk with a monster as in mono-toned to the degree of shifting the vibe because they’ve spoken in ways reflective of meeting something strange when stranded on a lonely dark road.  Or, consider speaking with anyone so ugly they’ve scared the ones responsible for bringing ’em into all this.  I… Take it to another level altogether.  Sensual stimuli, delivered in a casual way with no projected sense of menace.  I like stimuli and knew long ago that chemicals were released into my system based on how those same words impacted my psyche’.  A naturally brewed cocktail.  No need to step outside the body for this blend.  When engaged in conversation and you’re capable of keeping it smooth a massive chemical dump begins.  I’m talking about adrenaline, dopamine, endorphins, endocannabinoids, oxytocin, phenethylamine, prolactin, serotonin, testosterone, etc. etc. etc. The chemist will say these are the chemicals released after one has an orgasm.  I see where their heads are and keep it coming.

Happiness, (dopamine).  Another super chem. the type which lets you keep up with the worlds fastest human.  A la Usain Bolt (adrenaline).  Wanna really last forever (testosterone).  Yes yes I see the immediate connection with the sexual boostability and conveniently intend to side step any  secondary explanation. But…  Such is life when you’ve decided to take the lead.  You do it your way.  Forget what is politically correct or culturally anticipated.  Flip it and come correct because that’s what won’t be expected.

And now a moment to drift mentally.

Once upon a time while a goose drank wine, night fell and I found myself stuck at a friend’s home.  Feeling tired it didn’t take much to convince me to spend the night.  Preparing my place in front of the fireplace a friend of his significant other looking at me from around the corner didn’t want me to sleep alone.  Seeing her drag her blanket and placing it beside me, I said.  “I know you wanna have sex and that’s cool but I won’t have sex with you at least not tonight because…  I hardly even know you and“.

The simplicity of my words along with the way it was said allowed her to see the humor.  We talked, laughed and recognized there’s time for all things when you just let things blossom.  The compulsion to…  Didn’t occur, not even once.  Okay, I thought about it.  Couldn’t resist because of all the sexiness sorta’ easing from her as she sat across from me.  Her chin propped up resting in her two palms.  Smiling suggestively, consciously sending those vibes across the cosmic plane.  Maybe all in my mind but you all weren’t there.

Point is, it’s not always about you or what you may want it to be. Relationships are about the joining.  Advancing whatever it is you want it to be and not forcing a ‘thang.

Psssss; What, you thought because of the injection of military term I was gonna build this around celebs. currently getting mass media play. Capitalize on their philosophical interpretation. Why.  A very influential and famous someone “Beyonce” said “There’s a soldier in here, where ‘da at where ‘da at” and it became the mantra for females globally.  Many were lost in the intent of this metaphor.  Maybe because life is about choices. Hummm…  Check my analogy.  “I… King. The Court sits within the Castle where the Kingdom resides. I…  Only deal with Queen.  Psychologically plays beautifully with the emotional palette too.