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Adultery, Booty Call, Extra Martial Affair, Tryst; The G Brief…

Posted in Communications, Men&Women, psychology, Relationships with tags , , , on November 13, 2012 by ichas8440

November, 2012.  Baracca Obama was whisked back into the White House for a second term.  A Drama filled conclusion ending all speculation as to who would be…  POTUS!

November, same year a few days later, it was reported that one of our highly decorated military academia holding the rank of a four star General, who segued into the illustrious position of Director of The CIA, tendered his resignation, and all because …

Call it what ‘cha want.  The media has framed their presentation around the classic “E.M.A” or Extra Marital Affair.  I have no intention of giving a pass for what Ex. CIA Director David Petraeus engaged in with the esteemed biographer Paula Broadwell,  Who holds a PhD, making her also…  Some what of a “brainy-act” like the highest Spy in the land, which leads me to ponder this.  “How does a super spy, leading a super nation, working with a super crew get caught up in a high profile “Made For T.V” pre-emptive program starting with the exposure of a public notification of his resignation,  Tendered…  Based on what is said to be an error in judgment?”  This doesn’t happen unless…

I deal in facts.  The facts surrounding this incident aren’t hidden somewhere high up in the clouds.  El General was reportedly going to have to answer on some rather sensitive stuff and…  No one probably wanted it which points to…

Like I said, I deal in facts.  I don’t have all the facts to shed a realistic light on such a scripted situation.  What I do know are the events which lead or prompt a…  “Rendezvous, Booty Call, Extra Marital Affair, Tryst” while holding command over the entire military, and…  I also am fully conscious of the fine nuances required to engage on such a level no matter the economics, emotional status and or giving any of the requirements to do the same be you, a CEO, or any other type of; G.

While those believing the hype keep trippin’ spinnin’ the same weave, I would like to inject something no one has considered publicly.  El General, visibly decorated, ’til a Christmas tree can’t touch his decorations.  Look at the ornaments; Strike that.  We must maintain decorum here, in its place I will say, “medals” pinned to his uniform.  Which leads me to submit this.  “If confronted with similar accusations do you have the leverage shown by this 4 Star, distinguished, highly connected retired General to where you could stand the fire burning up everything around you?”

More facts.  How many FOLK initially have gotten caught up in this?  Hummm, there Paula Broadwell the 40something Grad. of West Point and a Harvard Alumni to boot.  She has a husband with kids in tow.  There’s the woman “Jill Kelly” who allegedly “blew the whistle” and ran to the Feds cause she was scared for her life.  Jill, not quite 40 but pushin’ it.  She was El General’s social liaison, who…  Incidentally comes with a package FAM too.  Now we have five adults plus the Ex. Director’s Wifey who is now saying she’s livid because.  As a result of all this comin’ out.

I guess she realizes 37 plus years was all about the physical where El General was concerned.  If she only knew.  It goes way beyond what she’s thinking and.  She shouldn’t discount herself no matter what has been said.

Hey, no matter the head count when you stray everybody pays.  When what ‘cha do or didn’t do goes viral and bites ‘ya in the ass, the pain, somehow registers.  Mentally, emotionally, physically, you’re working on pure adrenalin.  Supported by raw stupidity in your refusal to accept what you’ve created.  All traits required for one of El General’s status.  But…  There’s more, much more.  What about those caught in the fall out?

Personally, no one is excused but the children.  As for the ‘dults beginning with E. General.  “Head One” didn’t command a battalion which is a ‘lil over a thousand in military personnel.  David Petraeus was in full command of the military!  As for the women involved.  They say a man in uniform is more attractive than a man wearing nothin’, so up comes a man with power the likes of Caesar.  What do you think is gonna happen if and when any female maintains close quarters while carrying out her assigned duties?  Exactly.  Pheromones flow like a rushin’ river.  He and She can’t help but become affected.  Visions of grandeur about what can be will all that will be.  Basically it’s a mix that leads to a done deal.  “Head Two” is now the instrument in charge.  But again, speculation, all specs.

The deception is way over most FOLK head.  This isn’t about what ‘cha think or have been told to believe.  But.  I’m won’t slip into that darkness.  I know The Pelican Brief was scripted larger-than-life and if I expose what I know, my spot will be compromised, so.  I’ll restrict myself to what I know, which is the mentality and manipulative world of adulterous types.

Power corrupts and when given absolute power, prepare for the destruction of all.  Many of those in powerful positions are being reduced to ashes because of following their “Head Two“, and.  Everyone, posted up on the fence all wanna know why?  Why would someone with so much power fall in with such ridiculous activities?  My answer, because they can!

Most cases of.  I’m gonna call it subterfuge cause the term adultery is way too clean.  Subterfuge is better because it’s all about tricks.  Cloak and Dagger, sleight of hand type stuff.  When you get out there and are caught up in the illusions of the mission, all you do is; fantasize.  The age becomes just a number, the occupation isn’t even a consideration.  Motivation reverts, becomes…  Primal.  The horrible thing is, no one is gonna admit it because no one, especially those on the level of El General or any CEO will say they are guilty of being.  Basic in thoughts and actions.  I will cause I was.

As for the media taking all this and runnin’ with it, It’s not surprising.  Hypocritical positions are assumed by those making an attempt to “shift the weight”.  The media in their attempt to report something scandalous do so based on their “private association” of the same.  Adultery has been around since the beginning of human kind and most have been in it one way or the other.  This is why you have other descriptions for the same activity.  Tryst, Booty Call, Open Relationships, etc.  When one sees another in distress and the anguish is based on some sexual indiscretions, those who know the score and are guilty of same, move with a quickness to “cleanse themselves” by…  Shifting blame.  Being with another is as old as time, just like pointing the finger at others, is.

Doing the math you have at least 8 adults involved in this issue.  Now, add one of El General’s peers, General (John Allen).  Who is under investigation  in this Drama filled exposés cause he allegedly sent an email to one of the original Stars of the production.  An email where it’s alleged he may be trying to “get busy” or was just being a flirt.  Seems he used the word “Hon” in addressing Jill Kelly.  Tell me, how does anyone with security clearances like these FOLK get caught up like this?  They have been trained to do this hide and seek thing on a professional level.  This exposure on a public level is way too elementary for them.  FBI investigating the CIA.  Military Generals running around with all types of persuasive females and no one knowing what the other is up to.  Please.  And I just fell off a banana boat.

Deep rooted denial amazes me because; “Fornication Under Consenting King” doesn’t change improper advances or false compliance with moral high ground regardless of the station in life a person has attained.  CEO’s from Best Buy “Brian Dunn”, HP’s Mark Hurd, Boeings “Harry Stonecipher”, Lockheed Martin’s “Christopher Kubasik to Back-In-The-Day a New York Governor, and.  I can go on and on about those getting caught-up in similar shit, and…  No matter the Riser in power I know why?  Aphrodisiacs!  Most of these FOLK mentioned are socially powerless for real.  Unlike El General who.  To use a phrase I’m sure El General is very familiar with “none will fall on their sword”.  Mainly because their situation aren’t anything the likes of what has recently been reported.  This is a diversion and everybody is caught-up in the international opening.  And ‘ya know what, this premiere is way better than the latest James Bond movie “SkyFall”.  The entire “production” is gonna captivate for a moment, then.  Evaporate.  What will remain will be a lack of real talk on the causes and effects of “Playin’ In Another’s Field“.

Well get this, I’ve played in sorta similar fields.  My exception being, confined to Fields Of GameLords.  I’ve never possessed the credentials of El General or any of the others mentioned but.  I’m certified, qualified to personify when it comes to most things…  “Primal”.  What has been traditional and morphed into being historical I’ve not forgotten.  What are the reasons for most “conquest” involving the opposite sex, I’ve stripped the layers down and eventually removed completely.  Explored the essences of the sweetness and…  I luv the knowledge acquired in understanding these forms of quest.

Some say I’m too analytical and put way too much on it.  I hear ’em but it won’t stop me.  I will continue to, enjoy the “Peach” plucked from the tree.  It’s not just the sweet nectar, and the after affects once it all settles in.  I luv and know it’s worth the exploration taking me over the fence, around the bend into a world I know exists.  I’ve been there and duplicate that, which is why I’m standin’ today, because.  I’ve recognized those primal tracks that most deny and run from.  El General, his FAM, those associated.  They have to tighten up and deal with the storm that isn’t brewing but has already crossed the divide.  One other thing, don’t misconstrue what I’ve said because some will get my analogy twisted.  Running to say I’m a sexist and support the chance or opp. to fool around with another.  Then again, the bright ones, those who recognize what I’m about will stick with me cause they know it only gets better.

Psssss;  Those wishing to “make the correction”  feel free to “REACH OUT“.  My contact Intel is all over this blog and beyond.  Really conscious FOLK wanna know the risk comparable to established value.  You’ve considered the lack of leverage but only after the fact.  Don’t trip, you’re not alone, but.  Even with a golden parachute, continue the way of those mention and you can best believe you’ll find yourself way outta your league.  As for me, I’m not.  Remember.  “G’s have been in existence since the beginning of time, with each era identifying, maintaining while establishing their own.  I am G, G, G.  Now, let the lightening crack and vibe as the thunder roars, but it’s only through me that you’ll actually understand the score.

Letme Tell U Something

Posted in Communications, Men&Women, psychology, Relationships with tags , , on November 2, 2012 by ichas8440

The call came in but I missed it.  She was whoopin’ that ass.  Weapon of choice, the reliable kitchen spatula.  He, morphed into a fetal position but.  Managed to activate the cell, reaching out to me.  One demand, “Immediate Recon, Evalu. Assess Situation and if need be, Full Psychological Intervention ASAP”.  Whoa, this had to be drastic and as I attempted to defuse the attack call, he asked why she used the spatula as a first response.  My explanation was simple, closest thing to acquire!

Later, situation under wraps, him attending to his bruised ego inquired as to how did I know what to do.  Again, short direct answer; It’s the little things.

She, now in a reserved mode, made mention of him not being aware of her calls for attention.  Knowin’ she could, at any moment resort back to a combative stance, understood those calls She referred to and nodded in agreement.

Comm lines within a relationship follow a simple ritualistic pattern

It was once asked of me how could I profess to be up on relationships when I wouldn’t even cop to havin’ a mistress.  My reply caused further anxiety to the self Anointed Inquisitor because I had no interest in qualifying even this inquiry.  Why?  Because, an affair, secondary FAM on the side, Bootylicious call, whatever you prefer to say it is,  also follows a certain ritualistic pattern.  One of deceit, cloak & dagger sorta lifestyle of which I partook in none.  So why seek understanding and visual support in something I wasn’t a part of?  Affairs are usually found listed under the stealthy category, and…  Like I said, I wasn’t hiding a ‘thang.  As for knowing what it takes to win at this, well…  Perfection is of The Gods dominion, I’m far from perfect so what I know is what ‘cha get.  Relationships, how to maintain one, remain in one, with the intention of one day ascending to at least the level of a Mini Demi type of God is…  All I can hope for and point anyone towards.  This, I definitely know.

Mistress, Maintenance Man, significant other, all provide a special something and this is so because of one factor.  “Familiarity“.  Spatula Girl immediately recognized what I was talkin’ about and gave me that visual recognition supporting her agreement.  He, caught-up in illusion appeared perplexed.  So I told him this.  “Everybody assumes I’ve changed those who’ve been with me when the real is.  I knew enough about me to know “they” had no interest in changing but…  Would publicly go along with whatever I designed.  This is called never siding with the enemy.”  Another key in unlocking the secrets of success as they pertain to He and She.

He” in his drive to find a better way to survive was down, but.  He wasn’t alone.  “She”, still holding her spatula decided to lodge a complaint.  Spoke up and against my main ‘thang.  The ‘Lil Woman.  She said.  “Why is she always so quick to tell me that tired story about how ya al met“.  Baby girl was treadin’ on some really thin ice but…  I refused to “tippy-toe” onto the sheet and watch her freeze her ass off.  Instead, “Ghetto Pass Time“, I deployed a pair of those marvelous deflector targets the military uses when under attack.  Oh, with me this wasn’t an evasive tactic, I just wanted to give her something to shoot at while she re-considered what happens when you step to the strongest with some weak shit, expecting to survive.

My words.  “Taking a trip down Memory Lane guarantees that hope will remain alive.  Where He & She is concerned “hope” is one of the best most humbling of virtues.  My girl is simply givin’ you a glimpse of how to keep the home fires burnin’ by not extinguishing hers.”

While both of ’em contemplated this last “deflecting blast” I decided to take it a step further.  Explained to them that violence was not the trigger releasing anything.  What was required was maybe a simple suggestion while focusing on what was deemed good within the other by “the other“.  Sorta like sayin’ something while accenting the positive and forgoing the negative.

They smiled, She relaxed the grip on the spatula and He sorta unfolded some from his fetal position and…  Not so soon.  Both of ’em where still in this fragile state and the comfort zone would only amp-up the resentment.  Possibly inflicting more pain than before.  To eliminate this state of mind I suggested that each of ’em use this false comfort zone and move to re-examine what really made ’em comfortable with one another.  It was through the introduction of this technique that each of ’em may see something in the other, becoming inspired to wanna do the date thing again.  Basic but real.  A point maker for all involved.

Quietly I stood up while easing my way outta this ex-war zone.  In starting my car, lookin’ back I noticed a warm glow emitting from within their home.  Maybe I was imagining all this and…  Doesn’t matter.  Even if I was, it was my situation so I could perceive it any way I wanted.  That’s the beauty in specializing and not seeking expert status.  You know what ‘cha know and don’t have to rise to anyone else’s expectations.  Besides, expecting anything usually leads to setting yourself up for failure.  When you are called, like I’m called during the middle of the night.  Intruded upon while spending quality time with my significant other, to those in distress, nothin’ else matters.  So even if I wanted to miss the call when it rings I know that whomever is calling knows.  Eventually I will show and once there.  Will do like Felix and reach into my bag of tricks.  Show ’em how much some one else cares hopin’ they will stop the nonsense and care.

Psssss;  The story is true.  Names were omitted in case the one pushing the violence decides I was wrong and comes lookin’ for me.  The dynamics of the story were gleamed from aspects of life itself.  Even if realized through another’s prism.