Really… It is.
Colloquialisms; “The 3 B’s, Young Fabulous and Black, White I came about it Right”, all expressions yet, relative. Interpretation lost when heard outta context.
Sugar Babies, females seemingly with attitudes. Secondary expose’; (A highly educated woman who offer her “associative services” to men willing to sponsor her financially). This arrangement is all under the guise of bettering her overall future success.
When anyone steps to me sayin’ something insane I luv to repeat a particular word, like “Crackhead, Crackhead, Crackhead”. Once stated the one standing before or with me usually looks at me almost as if I’m the one trippin’. The trip is them daring to approach One strong in their belief with something so weak and expecting to survive. Much like women who’ve takin’ the definition of Pimpin’ to ‘ah whole ‘nother level while packaging it under the title of… Sugar Babies.
Men look at the woman and see “The 3 B’s“. Simply said, we see Beauty, Booty and Brains. Flip it, hear the rally cry of “She” and it will be, I’m Young Fabulous and Black. If of another culture (Tribe) and the skin tone is missing coloration, don’t feel left out, you are of the 3rd colloquialism. Like Pimpin’ what is, is and will continue to be flipped to appeal to the masses.
“Don’t ‘cha just luv inclusion”
It’s been said over and over how a Pimp seeks out the weak only to manipulate them to do two things. Pop that “P” and bring all the paper back to him! Real Talk; when dealin’ with a simply minded, easily influenced, directionally distracted person which a weak mind one is, the so called Pimp achieves one thing. A highly restricted limitation of his potential cash flow that is built on a platform ripe for infiltration by the same types who… Masquerade around as a Savior to those who’ve fallen under the said spell of…
With that out there who is the real Pimp!
Growth, what is this growth? It’s an accumulation of knowledge acquired from vast experiences over the course of the passage of time. An understanding of things now known as wisdom. One thing I’ve picked up along my journey is a simple concept known as “KIS“. This means Keep It Simple.
Behavior patterns of FOLK, all FOLK follows some hard-wired rules. Body Language of which much can be recognized internationally seldom changes, same extends to Micro-Expressions. Become aware of yours and you’ll understand other with a marked quickness.
Today everyone has latched onto the catch phrase “Universal”. I guess the new belief is everybody is the same. Nothin’ can be further from the truth. FOLK are distinguished by the culture they step from. Recognize this and your involvement with whomever becomes fluid. Now take this ideology and apply it to… Yourself. “How do you make it right?” Recognize that mass manipulation has been goin’ on since the beginning of time. In the World of Real a basic reality stands. When your tools aren’t sharp there’s no way you’ll be skilled at the job you approach. My job just happens to be livin’. To do this right you cannot get caught up in the trickeration Man/Kind spreads in their attempt to under-mind you.
“Attractive, Pretty, Beautiful, is there a difference?”
Yes and depending how you see yourself in relations to any of these three words will be a determining factor as to how others approach while engaging you. Ugly isn’t included because… Just because. Sugar Babies, Pimp, merely descriptive words. At times words employed to demean and then again, depending on who’s using them, empowering. Much like The Big 3. See yourself as such and believe me you’ll feel the surge.
In my arena those who’ve been around when witnessing YoungStars in the mist simply Dial It Down, also known as slowing their roll because. Instinctively they’d know the true impact of who they were in relations to the resounding affect their words would have on the future of He/She who pulled up to burglarize the conversation. Consideration of the mind (s) present they would look at the YoungStar and say, “Shut ‘da F**k up and you might learn something“. Today, with all of this avoidance of stereotypifaction, calling what you see what it is, playin’ nice hopin’ to just get along, you better not say it like that ’cause someone hearing you will assuming you’ve violated their holiness. Again, “F that”. YoungStars today have little to no respect for themselves let alone He/She who sprouts anything that may help them to navigate the water they’ve been dumped in so. Holiness, yeah right. Dumb azz, usually assuming the title of elite and. With that I say, pay attention and you will learn something!
Much of what guarantees your success is based on one simple factor; Do you. Unskilled, get your skills. Not the sharpest tool in the shed, realize you didn’t come outta a shed and the analogy doesn’t apply to you.
A woman said to me her man wouldn’t stay at home and every time he’s getting ready to go out, away from her she stands behind him. Watching him groom himself in the vanity mirror only to have him turn and say to her, “You ain’t goin’ nowhere you better be here when I get back“. I listen and ask what was she wearing and before she tells me I told her something sheer. Sexually suggestive to which she smiles and says, “How did you know“.
Point is, I continue and say next time this happens remain clothed, don’t attempt to change his mind by words or any provocative position. Let him plant the kiss on your cheek and watch him as he exits the spot. Then, do not cut up his clothes, don’t pour adhesive into his shoes, but. Do get your cards your ignition keys and remove your rings. Anything identifiable, symbolic of being owned and place it on the shared dresser. Leave. Go quick to the best hotel your money will afford. Far away from anywhere you/him could have every gone and… 72 hours later, go home.
Psssss; A beast will whoop that azz when you return home so if that’s who you’ve been with for all the days, why go back, you weren’t in a pro-active relationship in the first place. The man. He who isn’t fakin’ at being all he can be will have considered his options and… You will have arrived.